Friends

If you do cheat and don't feel good about what you have just done then don't tell your friends because they will give you a bunch of bad advice. What you do in your private time is your business. When you start bringing your friends into it then disaster can come about. One of your friends might slip up and accidentally tell your gf. It would be better if it came from you instead of a friend who is suppose to know nothing about the situation.

It's Just So Easy

When it becomes easy to break up with your girlfriend, you now know that you don't have strong feelings for this person. Woman want to be fought for and when you put forth the effort to do this the girl wants to be with you and will do anything for you. This shows growth and maturity.

When This Doesn't Happen

When you don't trust one another then issues come up such as trust. It is each persons job to avoid conflict from the other person.

The Relationship

When the man and the woman get into a committed relationship there is supposed to be no doubt about what each person wants. The man is supposed to cut off all of his other girls and the woman is supposed to do the same thing with her male friends. When this doesn't happen then a lot of questions and concerns come up. To avoid any problems in the relationship, you must have trust and honesty because without those there is nothing.

We Cheat Because

Men might cheat for a variety of different reasons. One might be because we are selfish and want to have our cake and eat it to. Another might be because it's a mistake and we just simply did not mean to do it. At the end of the day we are humans and make mistakes. This doesn't make it ok but it doesn't make us bad people because me might cheat.

What do my parents think of her?

If a man cheats on a woman then the parents automatically hate the guy. No matter what type of guy he is or what he stands for, he is thrown under the bus and never forgiven. Not to say that this is right but you should give the guy a chance to explain himself. Don't just hate the guy and never talk to him again. You wouldnt want for him to do that to you if the shoe was on the other foot.

If a man cheats

If a man cheats with one of your friends I guess that makes it a lot worst. Your friends are supposed to know that he is off limits. This is totally unacceptable and should not be tolerated. If this happens to you, then you should ask your bf why he did what he did and automatically befriend your so called friend.

When a Women is Through

When a women is done with you she is done. There is not enough apologizing in the world that will make up for whatever you did. The best thing to do is to address the situation while it is still fresh on the mind. If you let it linger around then the women will get more mad and eventually never forgive you. So the lesson for the day is to apologize in the beginning.

For The Love of Ray J

For those who don't know, there was a show on VH1 network called "For The Love of Ray J" and it was very popular. He starts off with 12 girls in the house and eliminates one every show. In the end he chooses one of them to be his girl. Now I know you are thinking what this has to do with my current blog. The answer is that he was cheating on them all. He told all of them that he loved them and cared about them. He probably did really care about them all but there is no way he truly loved every girl in the house. My point is that you can care about numerous girls, but you can only truly love one girl.

Don't Lie to Me

When confronted about cheating just do us all a favor and don't deny it. Just admit that you were wrong and lets move on.

Why Women Cheat

I know that many of you are asking why I am writing a blog about this topic. Ladies don't be offended but you cheat as well. The only difference is that women are a lot better at it and when asked did you cheat you say "why would you ask me that" The reason women cheat is because..... To tell you the truth I nor any man really knows why women cheat on their mate. If a women cheats then its probably a great reason behind it. Not to give women an excuse but that might be it.

I Love You

No you don't because if you did then you wouldn't have done what you just did. It was selfish and very disrespectful. You were only thinking about yourself when you did it. "But baby I love you and I just wanna be with you" This is a very famous line used but us men to try and get you women back. It works sometimes but most of the time it doesn't. So instead of saying this to get your girl back, you should start telling her this to keep her around.

I wanna do it but Im scared

I'm so scared of committing to one person. I love the fact of being single and doing whatever I wanna do. I truly believe that there is one man for every woman and we as men need to do a lot of growing up.

When Will You Ever Learn

When will you learn that you can't have your cake and eat it to. You have to pick one or the other. You can be a player and have many women who might not care about you or you can devote all of your time into one woman. When think about this they get scared but if you commit yourself you will feel a lot better.

One year later......

If you happen to run across the mate that you cheated with over a year later, then the chances are that she has forgiven you. Women usually don't hold grudges on you unless you really jobbed her over. You should start off by asking her how she is doing. Whatever you do, don't apologize for what you did in the past. For this will bring up bad memories and make her upset.

I Want You Back

No it's not just a jackson 5 song but it's what dudes say when they miss the one they care about. They usually mess it up with cheating or some type of infidelity. Guys usually want to mend the girls broken heart with flowers and candy. Well guess what... You should have been doing that when you had her. Instead you are taking the chance that she has already found someone else. Instead of saying I want you back, you should start saying I wanna keep you.

I Got caught cheating... What should I do?

First of all you should not be cheating. Secondly if you do get caught cheating the first thing you should do is apologize. Let her know that your sorry. Acknowledge what you did was wrong and finally assure her that it will never happen again. If this doesn't work then you might just be out of luck. Men cheat because they are not fulfilled sexually or mentally and there is no reason you should cheat. If your not happy then just break up with the girl. She might be hurt but she will respect you more if you do this instead of cheating.