Conclusion

In conclusion...... Men cheat and so do women. But at the end of the day all you have is your word. If your mate can't trust you then there is really nothing else you can do to salvage the relationship. When in a committed relationship you have to first trust what the other person says and then work to keep that person around.

Percentages

In fact, experts estimate that nearly 75 percent of married men, or men involved in serious relationships, cheat. That means three men out of every four practice infidelity, if the numbers are to be believed. And maybe even more disturbing is the simultaneous collapse of the seven-year itch, the once-disreputable length of time it was thought to normally take a man to give into sexual temptation.

I have options and I dont need U

Because they had the option. The old saying “men are only as faithful as their options” can sometimes ring true. Men don’t get offered sex as often as women so when the opportunity does arise, it can be very difficult for them to turn it down.

Faliing out of love

They have fallen out of love. Sometimes men become so comfortable in a relationship, they don’t know how to get out. They may be staying in the relationship because of children or financial reasons. However, they feel like they are missing out on love and may seek it out elsewhere. In their mind, this is as close to win-win as they can get.

Karma

Because you have allowed it in the past. If you have forgiven a cheating man a couple of times, they are more than likely going to cheat again because they already know if they plead enough, you will forgive them. Reasons why men cheat can be more complex than the above list or even be a combination of a few different reasons. Nevertheless, no reason is good enough reason to lie and be dishonest. After all, Karma can be a bitch.

Sex does matter

Your sex life sucks. If a man has a disinterested partner or isn’t getting enough sex to fulfill him, there is a good chance he will have an affair. Just because you have a husband or boyfriend, does not mean you can stop trying. It takes a little bit of effort to keep your sex life from getting boring and non-existent. Some men cheat because they want to try new sexual things that their current partner will not try.

One reason why men cheat....

Sometimes men don’t feel like they are attractive to the opposite sex any more and when a woman shows some interest, not only does a man react, he may allow her to stroke his ego and more. There’s nothing like the thrill of the chase to men on the hunt. When they are finally rewarded for their efforts, their egos swell even larger.

Friends

If you do cheat and don't feel good about what you have just done then don't tell your friends because they will give you a bunch of bad advice. What you do in your private time is your business. When you start bringing your friends into it then disaster can come about. One of your friends might slip up and accidentally tell your gf. It would be better if it came from you instead of a friend who is suppose to know nothing about the situation.

It's Just So Easy

When it becomes easy to break up with your girlfriend, you now know that you don't have strong feelings for this person. Woman want to be fought for and when you put forth the effort to do this the girl wants to be with you and will do anything for you. This shows growth and maturity.

When This Doesn't Happen

When you don't trust one another then issues come up such as trust. It is each persons job to avoid conflict from the other person.

The Relationship

When the man and the woman get into a committed relationship there is supposed to be no doubt about what each person wants. The man is supposed to cut off all of his other girls and the woman is supposed to do the same thing with her male friends. When this doesn't happen then a lot of questions and concerns come up. To avoid any problems in the relationship, you must have trust and honesty because without those there is nothing.

We Cheat Because

Men might cheat for a variety of different reasons. One might be because we are selfish and want to have our cake and eat it to. Another might be because it's a mistake and we just simply did not mean to do it. At the end of the day we are humans and make mistakes. This doesn't make it ok but it doesn't make us bad people because me might cheat.

What do my parents think of her?

If a man cheats on a woman then the parents automatically hate the guy. No matter what type of guy he is or what he stands for, he is thrown under the bus and never forgiven. Not to say that this is right but you should give the guy a chance to explain himself. Don't just hate the guy and never talk to him again. You wouldnt want for him to do that to you if the shoe was on the other foot.

If a man cheats

If a man cheats with one of your friends I guess that makes it a lot worst. Your friends are supposed to know that he is off limits. This is totally unacceptable and should not be tolerated. If this happens to you, then you should ask your bf why he did what he did and automatically befriend your so called friend.

When a Women is Through

When a women is done with you she is done. There is not enough apologizing in the world that will make up for whatever you did. The best thing to do is to address the situation while it is still fresh on the mind. If you let it linger around then the women will get more mad and eventually never forgive you. So the lesson for the day is to apologize in the beginning.

For The Love of Ray J

For those who don't know, there was a show on VH1 network called "For The Love of Ray J" and it was very popular. He starts off with 12 girls in the house and eliminates one every show. In the end he chooses one of them to be his girl. Now I know you are thinking what this has to do with my current blog. The answer is that he was cheating on them all. He told all of them that he loved them and cared about them. He probably did really care about them all but there is no way he truly loved every girl in the house. My point is that you can care about numerous girls, but you can only truly love one girl.

Don't Lie to Me

When confronted about cheating just do us all a favor and don't deny it. Just admit that you were wrong and lets move on.

Why Women Cheat

I know that many of you are asking why I am writing a blog about this topic. Ladies don't be offended but you cheat as well. The only difference is that women are a lot better at it and when asked did you cheat you say "why would you ask me that" The reason women cheat is because..... To tell you the truth I nor any man really knows why women cheat on their mate. If a women cheats then its probably a great reason behind it. Not to give women an excuse but that might be it.

I Love You

No you don't because if you did then you wouldn't have done what you just did. It was selfish and very disrespectful. You were only thinking about yourself when you did it. "But baby I love you and I just wanna be with you" This is a very famous line used but us men to try and get you women back. It works sometimes but most of the time it doesn't. So instead of saying this to get your girl back, you should start telling her this to keep her around.

I wanna do it but Im scared

I'm so scared of committing to one person. I love the fact of being single and doing whatever I wanna do. I truly believe that there is one man for every woman and we as men need to do a lot of growing up.

When Will You Ever Learn

When will you learn that you can't have your cake and eat it to. You have to pick one or the other. You can be a player and have many women who might not care about you or you can devote all of your time into one woman. When think about this they get scared but if you commit yourself you will feel a lot better.

One year later......

If you happen to run across the mate that you cheated with over a year later, then the chances are that she has forgiven you. Women usually don't hold grudges on you unless you really jobbed her over. You should start off by asking her how she is doing. Whatever you do, don't apologize for what you did in the past. For this will bring up bad memories and make her upset.

I Want You Back

No it's not just a jackson 5 song but it's what dudes say when they miss the one they care about. They usually mess it up with cheating or some type of infidelity. Guys usually want to mend the girls broken heart with flowers and candy. Well guess what... You should have been doing that when you had her. Instead you are taking the chance that she has already found someone else. Instead of saying I want you back, you should start saying I wanna keep you.

I Got caught cheating... What should I do?

First of all you should not be cheating. Secondly if you do get caught cheating the first thing you should do is apologize. Let her know that your sorry. Acknowledge what you did was wrong and finally assure her that it will never happen again. If this doesn't work then you might just be out of luck. Men cheat because they are not fulfilled sexually or mentally and there is no reason you should cheat. If your not happy then just break up with the girl. She might be hurt but she will respect you more if you do this instead of cheating.

Have I Cheated?

I know that most of my readers out there are wondering if I have ever cheated or been unfaithful. And the answer is yes I have. I was young and dumb and all I thought about was myself. I didnt think I would get caught and that I wasn't going to hurt anybody in the process but I was wrong. In the end I ended up being more hurt than the girl I cheated on. So no matter what any guy tells you he hurts probably more if he is caught cheating. He feels a sense of guilt and wants to be forgiven.

Once a Cheater.... Always a Cheater

Females have the idea that once a man cheats then he will always be labeled a cheater. Men can change and do better for themselves. Now, it may be true that most men want to have their cake and eat it to, we as humans don't want to cheat on the next person we start a relationship with. We as men try everything in our power to do the right thing and stay faithful while in a relationship. Our flesh can be weak and sometimes we don't think but one thing can be said. Men who are trying to stay faithful and be with one person are often given a bad name by those who only think of themselves

Cheating?

When woman confront their man about the act of cheating. We can be a little hostile in the beginning, only because we are a little shocked that you would ask us that. If we are cheating our hearts drop into our stomach and we become automatically apologetic. Listen up ladies. People make mistakes and Im not sayin that cheating should happen and that its ok to just forgive and forget but what I am saying is that you should at least give us a chance to explain ourselves.

Why men shouldnt cheat

I don't think that men should cheat because their girl most of the time cares a lot about them. Most men have truly loyal girlfriends and they should treat them like gold. Another reason men shouldn't cheat is because it is wrong. Sometimes as a man ur conscious should not allow you to cheat.

Men Cheat Becasue.....

Men often cheat on their girlfrind/wife for many reasons. One could be because they are just not happy. Other reasons include selfishness and the love for many women. Whatever the reason behind a man cheating, it is wrong but women are also some of the best cheaters out there. They are smarter and cover their tracks a lot better than males. When women cheat I guess society makes it ok and the guy is just supposed to take her back. Well men before you do your dirt and get caught think about how honest your women is being with you..

Signs of Infidelity

If a guy gets mad at you for accepting calls or texts late and its their mother, they are probably cheating. If a guy is always texting like all the time and you are right their with him, guess what? They are probably cheating. When men cheat ladies they do feel very guilty believe it or not. They think with their other head and sometimes make impractical decisions.

How Men Cheat

Men can cheat in a variety of ways. Text messaging, late night phone calls, and looking at women out of the side of your eyes are all forms of indirect cheating. Men will usually get mad at their women if they are themselves cheating. If dudes take their phone everywhere that they go, they are probably cheating. This is just one of the many signs of guys cheating.

Who Men Cheat With

Most of the time women dont have to go far to find out their man is cheating with. It is most of the time right under their nose.

What women think

Women are the innocent bystanders of men cheating. They can sometimes be hurt in more ways than one. When women are cheated on they often take it out on the next guy they are involved with. As a result men are immediately affected by other men cheating. So think about it before you think with your other "brain"

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Experts on cheating

What are you thinking about?

What are men thinking about when they cheat. The answer to that is they arent thinking. Men think with their "other brain" when they are faced with this dilemma. You can see a cute girl with a nice body and be with your girl. The chances of that dude thinking about their girlfriend are slim to none. When that other girl enters the mind of the dude. They are poisoned. So we as men need to start thinking with our brain up top.

When men cheat

Men cheat when they are mad at their girl or they are just greedy. Why does anyone cheat really? We as humans are very selfish people and always want the newest, hottest, better thing out there when sometimes the best thing for us is right in front of our face.

Where?

Most dudes cheat with someone their girlfriend may know and be close with. They often do it when they are not in the company of their girl. Some of the signs include dudes taking their phones into the bathroom with them, never leaving their phones alone or around their girl, and most important they might accuse you of cheating out of sudden guilt.

Reasons

I think that men cheat because they are not fulfilled mentally or sexually.

The beginning

We as dudes ask ourselves are we really happy with the one that we are with. No matter how good your girl may look there is always someone else who has an attribute that you may find interesting. I dont think dudes should commit until they know that there no one else out there for them. I know that i am going to get married one day but until Im sure thats what I want I will keep looking. Post up comments, concerns, and opinions on how you feel about this particular subject.